1. It Requires A Lot Of Effort To Listen. Unfortunately, it’s a woman’s nature to talk too much. But you need to keep in mind that listening takes an actual physical effort. And if you talk too much, your man would be tempted to wander off into his own world. As a result, he won’t focus on what you’re about to say. However, if you talk slowly, your man might be able to catch up with the conversation you’re having with him.
2. It’s Sometimes A Power Struggle. Some men consider intimate relationship as a game. If their woman is expressing her emotions, then men would consider it as a losing game. That perception would force them to dominate and control their partner by telling her she’s out of control.
3. They Are So Focused On Another Subject. When your man is trying to fix something and you’re talking to him, chances are that he’d miss the point of the conversation. As a result, he’d give up talking to you until he fixes the subject that he’s focused on while you’re conversing with him. Sometimes there are more pressing issues or concerns that your man has to attend to than focusing on you.
4. Their Ears Are Closed. This is especially true if you’re yelling at him. Men don’t like to be yelled at. So, if you’re screaming at him, he won’t listen to you.
5. He might have mood disorders.
6. Men Assume That They Knew It Already. Some men usually assume that they already know what the woman’s going to say. Or it could also be that the subject at hand is too complex for them to digest or not that important to listen to.
7. They’ve Heard Too Many Speakers In One Day. His busy life may prevent him from listening to every single message he received, including yours. If he’s not listening to you, it could be that he’s just wandering off to rest his ears and mind.
8. There Are Distractions Around Him. An external noise could prevent him from listening to you. Be it a loud television set or other people’s conversations, it could prevent him from listening to you effectively. Try reducing the distractions so he can clearly hear you.
9. The Brains Of Men Have Less Area For Production And Use Of Words. This simply means that men only have fewer verbal centers compared with women. This finding also means that your man tends to end the conversation quicker than you do.
10. They Have Less Serotonin And Oxytocin Than Women Have. They’re hormones that can affect emotions. The former calms you down while the latter is associated with your bonding behavior. For that reason, men would like to chill out more while women want to bond with their men at the end of the day. When you want to talk to him about his day, he’ll just give you a quick answer. In order for your man to listen to you, you need to know the right timing. It could be after he’s done watching his favorite TV show or reading the newspaper. And when you talk to him, you must keep it short and must be straight to the point. You should also pause to allow him to digest what you’re telling him. You must maintain an eye contact to make sure that he’s really listening to you. There are tons more reasons why men never listen to men. But women must understand the reasons behind it in order to learn how to communicate with their male partners properly.
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