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Make Legit Money From Joining my Network On Zarfund
READ THIS PART FIRST!!!: What you are about to read is a mind/life changing opportunity, on how to Invest online and get return, Please take your time to read at least twice before you start following the processes, the difficulty of this tutorial is about 70% tough, and do read the "Frequently asked questions" too, Wish you Success!!!.
ALSO JOIN WHATSAPP GROUP ==> CLICK HERE <===
Welcome, on Behalf of Brigt light media i would like to introduce you to Zarfund! You might have heard about it or not, But Zarfund is the future of community funding! its an eye opener to investors who would want "very trusted way" to earn by simply helping another friend earn (continue reading to understand)..
How Zarfund Works (Overview)
For example you make a community of 3 people (A, B,and C) where you are A. On registering through here as A, you will have to first make a donation of 0.03BTC (about $19 worth of btc unit) to a beneficiary (automatic referrer that's if you do not have one), on doing so, your account will be upgraded and opened to start referring someone to earn, Then you will have to refer "B and C" who will register and their first payment of 0.03btc each goes to you making 0.06BTC, Now you gain 0.03BTC but you then have to upgrade to Level 2 with 0.05BTC from your earned 0.06BTC and save 0.01BTC on that level other new people plus your previous B and C will donate up to it till you keep growing and reach level 6.
Let me Shock you! Do you Know You could withdraw upto 1million naira from Zarfund? Continue reading as i Unveil More...
Now that you have gotten little overview, Lets get started with What you need to Do
WARNING!! Before you get started, i suggest you Fund your Bitcoin Wallet with Minimum of $20 worth of BTC, to Fund Your Wallet, Follow Step 1 and 2 below, then Email Whatsapp : 08075966169 or Email:brighttreasure26@gmail.com on how to purchase Bitcoin (BTC), We sell at a bonus rate of 500 naira per Dollar (the actual value of BTC dollar is higher than normal dollar). So since you need 0.03BTC about $20 dollars to start the Zarfund, 500 X 20 = #10,000. Therefore, you need #10,000 to start up earning with Zarfund. Message me only after you have created Zarfund account and Blockchain account as explained on Step 1 and 2 Below
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How do i Join Zarfund?
For you to join Zarfund, you must be under a Trusted team, Bright light media very Trusted and high earner plus free steps, Click here to Register Today!
After Earning how do i withdraw my bitcoins to Raw cash!
Selling of bitcoins is a big business, Just yesterday (21-09-2016) i Fidelis Ozuawala only from facebook sold Bitcoins worth over 1.5million naira, i believe no indoor worker with or without certificate has earned that under 8hours, when you are ready to sell email brighttreasure26@gmail.com i will buy all from you without any stress!
I can't get the whole process clearly, can you help me
Yes, but before then, if you have a laptop, try the whole process with it or visit a cyber-cafe, but for convenience purposes we can help you setup everything and also give you teachings on how it could be used, you can contact me on Whatsapp above or mail me ASAP.
Why do i Need a Bitcoin address / Blockchain account
The Bitcoin is a high valued crypto-currency making waves broadly, it serves like a very secured online banking platform where you can receive and send coins for online transactions, currently the bitcoin is generally accepted as a trading tool in the online market, to get an account, visit blockchain.info and click wallet the register.
Are you allowed to upgrade even though your level is not filled up eg to be on level 3 you must have 8 downline, does that mean you have to get exactly 8 before upgrading to level 4?
You can upgrade at any time, the sooner you are able to the sooner you know you will not miss out on any subscription payments.
Is it possible for down lines to upgrade to your upline instead of you if you're not on that level yet?
Everyone can have their own unique experience in the system. It is best to upgrade the moment you are able to. If you don't you will miss subscriptions for the levels you have not upgraded to if there are members below you on those levels who upgrade fast.
Isn't this like a pyramid scheme or Scam, will i be paid?
Well a pyramid scheme means that only the top members of the hierarchy get paid whereas ZarFund allows every member to earn the same amount by doing the same amount of work. You can receive more subscriptions than the person who signed you up.
Do we have to pay the 0.03 btc subscription every month?
Yes, you started a monthly subscription for each level every month. If you want to continue to receive monthly subscriptions from each level every month you need to pay your subscription every month for each level to qualify.
When using the hash id to submit proof of donation the system says Hash ID already used?
It may happen that you have successfully submitted it and trying to resubmit again (in this case open a new tab to dashboard to see if the payment has processed) or you selected the wrong Hash ID when you upgraded or that you did not follow the safe rule of only using blockchain.info to make you subscription payments in the program.
What happens if I don't pay my monthly subscription?
If your monthly subscriptions are in arrears, for any level that you have upgraded to, then the subscriptions that would have come to you, for that particular level, will bypass you and go up to your level 1 upline, if they are qualified. For example: If someone on your level 3, in your matrix, is either upgrading to level 3 or is paying their monthly subscription for level 3, if you are qualified, you will receive that subscription payment. If you are not yet on level 3 or you are in arrears on your level 3 monthly subscription, the subscription payment will bypass you and go to your level 1 upline, if they are qualified to receive a level 3 subscription payment, meaning they are already on level 3 and they are current with their level 3 monthly subscriptions. It works the same way with the regular upgrades and the monthly subscriptions... so don't get skipped!
What is the difference between upgrade and subscription on Zarfund?
ZarFund is a monthly subscription platform. When you first upgrade to a level, you are in fact making your first monthly payment for that level. Approximately 30 days later, the second monthly subscription payment is due and 5 days before it is due, you will see a green "Pay Now" button. The answer is there is no difference. It's just that the first payment is made through the "Upgrade to Next Level" button and all other subsequent subscription payments are made through the "Pay Now" button, for each level you have upgraded to.
In Conclusion! Take Action today, this is a mantle for you to invest start reaping from early investment, don't always wonder how these people make their money! a true step and trusted partner is here,
incase of confusion, still not clear (please read up above), Contact me via my detail (please don't call me because am always busy) or please drop a comment below!!!
ALSO JOIN WHATSAPP GROUP ==> CLICK HERE <===
Welcome, on Behalf of Brigt light media i would like to introduce you to Zarfund! You might have heard about it or not, But Zarfund is the future of community funding! its an eye opener to investors who would want "very trusted way" to earn by simply helping another friend earn (continue reading to understand)..
How Zarfund Works (Overview)
For example you make a community of 3 people (A, B,and C) where you are A. On registering through here as A, you will have to first make a donation of 0.03BTC (about $19 worth of btc unit) to a beneficiary (automatic referrer that's if you do not have one), on doing so, your account will be upgraded and opened to start referring someone to earn, Then you will have to refer "B and C" who will register and their first payment of 0.03btc each goes to you making 0.06BTC, Now you gain 0.03BTC but you then have to upgrade to Level 2 with 0.05BTC from your earned 0.06BTC and save 0.01BTC on that level other new people plus your previous B and C will donate up to it till you keep growing and reach level 6.
Let me Shock you! Do you Know You could withdraw upto 1million naira from Zarfund? Continue reading as i Unveil More...
Now that you have gotten little overview, Lets get started with What you need to Do
WARNING!! Before you get started, i suggest you Fund your Bitcoin Wallet with Minimum of $20 worth of BTC, to Fund Your Wallet, Follow Step 1 and 2 below, then Email Whatsapp : 08075966169 or Email:brighttreasure26@gmail.com on how to purchase Bitcoin (BTC), We sell at a bonus rate of 500 naira per Dollar (the actual value of BTC dollar is higher than normal dollar). So since you need 0.03BTC about $20 dollars to start the Zarfund, 500 X 20 = #10,000. Therefore, you need #10,000 to start up earning with Zarfund. Message me only after you have created Zarfund account and Blockchain account as explained on Step 1 and 2 Below
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- Step 1: Goto Zarfund Website here, NOTE: You must be referred by us in other to get full assurance plus free Support and Tips to success to be the next Millionaire!
NOTE: Make sure you memorize your "Security Question and Answer", You will need it to add you Bitcoin account to receive your earnings!
Then fill in your details correctly and hit register! - Skip Step 2 if you already Have a Blockchain (compulsory) bitcoin address!
.................................................................. - Step 2: You must have a Blockchain account!
The BlockChain account is a Bitcoin Wallet where your earnings are sent to and your contributions are sent from, it is not a hard task at all, i am here to guide each and everyone of you!
This is how to get a bitcoin wallet from BlockChain! Visit, BlockChain Signup page Fill in your email and passwords then hit register!.
Login back to the account, by visiting Blockchain.info, Click on Wallet at the Top, Then Click login, after login to your dashboard, click recieve and copy your address (follow Screenshot instructions below)

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- Step 3: The address copied above should now be pasted on your Zarfund account created on Step 1 above.
To do this, Visit Zarfund.com, Login with your details, then goto account or simply Click here to Visit Zarfund account immediately!
Then Fill in the three boxes respectively:
>> The Wallet Name: Use Block Chain
>> The Bitcoin Address: Paste the address you copied into here
>> Your Security question: Put Answer to security question used at Registration
Now you are done setting up you main account, you have few more steps to go, but before then you may Update your profile details (its Optional though) then follow step 4 below.
NOTE: Step 4 must be Carried out under 24hours else your account may be deleted!
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Step 4: Login to Zarfund dashboard, on the Dashboard there click on Upgrade, the you will be given a BTC address to make payment to (as their Step 1), Copy the address you see there carefully (it is an upliners address you are to make first subscription/contribution to:
WARNING!!: Open a new tab on your browser to continue below process!
- Goto your Blockchain account wallet on dashboard click on "Send",
- Paste the address on the box provided there
- Type in the amount of 0.03 at the left box, corresponding to about $18 - 19 at the right box
- On Description, just type in "Zarfund Payment from [Your name]" or Leave empty.
- Then Submit it. (once the payment goes)
(on their Step 2)
Then visit blockchain.info main website, at the top you will see a search box, Paste the address you just sent 0.03BTC to, inside the box, then copy the transaction hash id and paste into the box provided there, Use blockchain as the payment website when asked!
(see steps below)
The number 2 in above screenshot is the Transaction Hash to Copy!
After you have successfully submitted the transaction hash to Zarfund, wait for 30-60mins for your payment to be approved
..................................................................- Step 5: Up next is to build a (your) community of mutual friends to be under your team!
So Goto Zarfund referral page Copy your referral link and give it to friends to start registering, the more friends you have that successfully upgrade their account gives you the opportunity to build up to Level 6 where you now relax and start earning huge even Upto Millions Monthly!
Frequently Asked Questions About Zarfund
How do i Join Zarfund?
For you to join Zarfund, you must be under a Trusted team, Bright light media very Trusted and high earner plus free steps, Click here to Register Today!
After Earning how do i withdraw my bitcoins to Raw cash!
Selling of bitcoins is a big business, Just yesterday (21-09-2016) i Fidelis Ozuawala only from facebook sold Bitcoins worth over 1.5million naira, i believe no indoor worker with or without certificate has earned that under 8hours, when you are ready to sell email brighttreasure26@gmail.com i will buy all from you without any stress!
I can't get the whole process clearly, can you help me
Yes, but before then, if you have a laptop, try the whole process with it or visit a cyber-cafe, but for convenience purposes we can help you setup everything and also give you teachings on how it could be used, you can contact me on Whatsapp above or mail me ASAP.
Why do i Need a Bitcoin address / Blockchain account
The Bitcoin is a high valued crypto-currency making waves broadly, it serves like a very secured online banking platform where you can receive and send coins for online transactions, currently the bitcoin is generally accepted as a trading tool in the online market, to get an account, visit blockchain.info and click wallet the register.
Are you allowed to upgrade even though your level is not filled up eg to be on level 3 you must have 8 downline, does that mean you have to get exactly 8 before upgrading to level 4?
You can upgrade at any time, the sooner you are able to the sooner you know you will not miss out on any subscription payments.
Is it possible for down lines to upgrade to your upline instead of you if you're not on that level yet?
Everyone can have their own unique experience in the system. It is best to upgrade the moment you are able to. If you don't you will miss subscriptions for the levels you have not upgraded to if there are members below you on those levels who upgrade fast.
Isn't this like a pyramid scheme or Scam, will i be paid?
Well a pyramid scheme means that only the top members of the hierarchy get paid whereas ZarFund allows every member to earn the same amount by doing the same amount of work. You can receive more subscriptions than the person who signed you up.
Do we have to pay the 0.03 btc subscription every month?
Yes, you started a monthly subscription for each level every month. If you want to continue to receive monthly subscriptions from each level every month you need to pay your subscription every month for each level to qualify.
When using the hash id to submit proof of donation the system says Hash ID already used?
It may happen that you have successfully submitted it and trying to resubmit again (in this case open a new tab to dashboard to see if the payment has processed) or you selected the wrong Hash ID when you upgraded or that you did not follow the safe rule of only using blockchain.info to make you subscription payments in the program.
What happens if I don't pay my monthly subscription?
If your monthly subscriptions are in arrears, for any level that you have upgraded to, then the subscriptions that would have come to you, for that particular level, will bypass you and go up to your level 1 upline, if they are qualified. For example: If someone on your level 3, in your matrix, is either upgrading to level 3 or is paying their monthly subscription for level 3, if you are qualified, you will receive that subscription payment. If you are not yet on level 3 or you are in arrears on your level 3 monthly subscription, the subscription payment will bypass you and go to your level 1 upline, if they are qualified to receive a level 3 subscription payment, meaning they are already on level 3 and they are current with their level 3 monthly subscriptions. It works the same way with the regular upgrades and the monthly subscriptions... so don't get skipped!
What is the difference between upgrade and subscription on Zarfund?
ZarFund is a monthly subscription platform. When you first upgrade to a level, you are in fact making your first monthly payment for that level. Approximately 30 days later, the second monthly subscription payment is due and 5 days before it is due, you will see a green "Pay Now" button. The answer is there is no difference. It's just that the first payment is made through the "Upgrade to Next Level" button and all other subsequent subscription payments are made through the "Pay Now" button, for each level you have upgraded to.
In Conclusion! Take Action today, this is a mantle for you to invest start reaping from early investment, don't always wonder how these people make their money! a true step and trusted partner is here,
incase of confusion, still not clear (please read up above), Contact me via my detail (please don't call me because am always busy) or please drop a comment below!!!
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tech money making
on Friday, 21 October 2016
10 Things You Need To Do In Your 20s That Will Make Life Better in Your 30s
2. Drink more water! No, more than that. The difference it makes in your skin, your body, and your mood is no freaking joke. Put in cut-up fruit if you have to, but just drink it already.
3. Try not giving a shit about your relationship status. Date around and have lots of sex. Or be single for long stretches of time. Enjoy this time to do whatever you want without stressing out about your relationship status or trying to find a husband. It’ll happen when it’s meant to and you’ll be so glad you didn’t spend all your time stressing about it. Stress is bad for your health.
4. Read a newspaper every day, even if it’s online. Knowledge about the world gets built over time, and if you want to be a well-informed thirty something, you have to build that base now. And it doesn’t have to be painful; just read something every day about a topic that interests you.
5. Take big career risks. Hate what you’re doing and want to try something else, but afraid you won’t make any money/don’t think you’ll get the job/have no idea what you’re doing? Who cares? Unless you have kids to feed, really jump off the cliff and go for what you want.
6. Travel. Your back is still able to tolerate hostel beds and you should be fine eating $1 street kabobs for dinner, so you can travel on the cheap in ways that Olds just cannot anymore. Go places, and go alone at least once, because you might not get the chance again. Plus, when you get older and have $$$, you can go back to your favorite places and actually do it up right.
7. Come to terms with the fact that your life is not going to be what you imagined it to be when you were 20. It’ll probably be better overall and honestly, you probably ended up looking waycuter than you ever thought you would. So there’s that.
8. Figure out who you can truly count on to be there for you, and invest your time in those friendships. It’s fine to hang out with the one girl you party with constantly, but also hang out with the person who genuinely cares about you even when you’re feeling like garbage and have been crying a lot lately and you don’t know why, because they’ll be the ones who still care 10 years from now when you’re not going to clubs as often at all. Like, not even one-quarter as much.
9. Learn how to cook (or marry someone who does). My plan is the latter, but even so, you can’t go through life eating microwavable meals and getting takeout. It’s not great for you financially or physically, so just take a simple cooking class, something to get you started. You can still microwave those Lean Cuisines and get takeout from your favorite Thai place sometimes, but at least if those aren’t options, you’re not clawing at the walls fearing starvation.
10. Actually take care of your skin. That skin care routine you do every night isn’t bullshit, so don’t quit it. By using a regimen with good-for-you ingredients, you’re actually supporting your skin’s structure, so it doesn’t fall when you turn 30. Trust me, if you take care of your skin, you’ll look the best/youngest at your 15-year reunion when everyone else will look, um, not so much.
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motivational
on Monday, 29 June 2015
Why Men Don’t Listen When Women Talk Too Much
1. It Requires A Lot Of Effort To Listen. Unfortunately, it’s a woman’s nature to talk too much. But you need to keep in mind that listening takes an actual physical effort. And if you talk too much, your man would be tempted to wander off into his own world. As a result, he won’t focus on what you’re about to say. However, if you talk slowly, your man might be able to catch up with the conversation you’re having with him.
2. It’s Sometimes A Power Struggle. Some men consider intimate relationship as a game. If their woman is expressing her emotions, then men would consider it as a losing game. That perception would force them to dominate and control their partner by telling her she’s out of control.
3. They Are So Focused On Another Subject. When your man is trying to fix something and you’re talking to him, chances are that he’d miss the point of the conversation. As a result, he’d give up talking to you until he fixes the subject that he’s focused on while you’re conversing with him. Sometimes there are more pressing issues or concerns that your man has to attend to than focusing on you.
4. Their Ears Are Closed. This is especially true if you’re yelling at him. Men don’t like to be yelled at. So, if you’re screaming at him, he won’t listen to you.
5. He might have mood disorders.
These disorders usually happen if they’d stroke in the past. They affect how they listen, not just to women, but also to other people.
6. Men Assume That They Knew It Already. Some men usually assume that they already know what the woman’s going to say. Or it could also be that the subject at hand is too complex for them to digest or not that important to listen to.
7. They’ve Heard Too Many Speakers In One Day. His busy life may prevent him from listening to every single message he received, including yours. If he’s not listening to you, it could be that he’s just wandering off to rest his ears and mind.
8. There Are Distractions Around Him. An external noise could prevent him from listening to you. Be it a loud television set or other people’s conversations, it could prevent him from listening to you effectively. Try reducing the distractions so he can clearly hear you.
9. The Brains Of Men Have Less Area For Production And Use Of Words. This simply means that men only have fewer verbal centers compared with women. This finding also means that your man tends to end the conversation quicker than you do.
10. They Have Less Serotonin And Oxytocin Than Women Have. They’re hormones that can affect emotions. The former calms you down while the latter is associated with your bonding behavior. For that reason, men would like to chill out more while women want to bond with their men at the end of the day. When you want to talk to him about his day, he’ll just give you a quick answer. In order for your man to listen to you, you need to know the right timing. It could be after he’s done watching his favorite TV show or reading the newspaper. And when you talk to him, you must keep it short and must be straight to the point. You should also pause to allow him to digest what you’re telling him. You must maintain an eye contact to make sure that he’s really listening to you. There are tons more reasons why men never listen to men. But women must understand the reasons behind it in order to learn how to communicate with their male partners properly.
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See The Main Reasons Why Women Hate Each Other (MUST READ)
2) Inferiority complex Some ladies start to feel inferior when others are showered compliments and they are not. They start to hate the lady who received the compliment as if it was her fault. If another lady commands respect and they don’t they begin to hate.
3) Pride Some women have a little too much pride within themselves and therefore cannot like anyone who they perceive is better than them. It’s okay to have a lot of self-esteem but a lot of women confuse it with pride.
4) Insecurity Some women are very insecure. They judge other women according to their insecurities and what makes them feel better about themselves. Some say, it’s in a woman’s nature to be jealous of another women but a woman who knows her true self-worth can never be jealous of another. Not every woman has the habit of hating other women. For those who are in the habit of hating others, stop seeing other women as competition. You should not feel threatened by their confidence.
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Just for today, use your faith to create better experiences.
Experience teaches you that your faith is paying off. Once you have had an experience, you know that you know. When you know, you become more faithful. Once you have an experience, it makes you want better or different experiences. The difference between faith and experience is this: One you must work on. The other one works on you. You must work to keep your faith alive.
When you are working on faith, it may feel as if you are going against the grain. There may be no evidence that what you believe has any validity. Still, you must move forward faithfully, until you have the experience that will lead you to knowing. An experience leaves a mark on your consciousness. An experience will guide your thoughts and your actions. An experience can open your heart to new horizons or close your heart in fear. In the midst of an experience,
you must have faith that you will ultimately reap some benefit from what you now know to be true. It is important to know what experiences to put your faith in. If you have an unpleasant experience, have faith that you will learn something new, useful or productive. When you have a pleasant or productive experience, have faith that you can duplicate the experience and make it better.
Have faith that your mind and heart will always be open to bigger, better experiences than those you have already had. Until today, you may not have realized that your faith and your experiences work hand in hand. Just for today, use your faith to create better experiences. Use your experiences to activate a deeper sense of faith. f
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You will get over that pain you’re having right now and one day you’ll be happy again.
No matter how bad it hurts or how bad you feel, it’s time to stop thinking about that person who played with your feelings, who took your love for granted, who never appreciated your care, who wasn’t contented with what you could give him or her.
You can’t stay at that hurtful place anymore. You can’t keep shedding tears over someone who doesn’t deserve the love you gave. You can’t keep feeling sorry for yourself and thinking if only you did more. You can’t make them want the relationship because if they wanted they wouldn’t have let go of you. You deserve better now.
You deserve someone who appreciates you and who won’t play with your delicate heart.. Just like a cut on your hand will take time to heal, your broken heart needs time to heal as well. That’s not the end of your life. You will get over that pain you’re having right now and one day you’ll be happy again.
You can’t stay at that hurtful place anymore. You can’t keep shedding tears over someone who doesn’t deserve the love you gave. You can’t keep feeling sorry for yourself and thinking if only you did more. You can’t make them want the relationship because if they wanted they wouldn’t have let go of you. You deserve better now.
You deserve someone who appreciates you and who won’t play with your delicate heart.. Just like a cut on your hand will take time to heal, your broken heart needs time to heal as well. That’s not the end of your life. You will get over that pain you’re having right now and one day you’ll be happy again.
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motivational,
stories
on Saturday, 27 June 2015
How to disagree without being disagreeable
These days, everywhere you look someone is fighting over something. Whether it's politics, parenting, religion or lifestyle choices, people feel the need to speak out. But why do people feel the need to express themselves negatively? We've lost the fine art of civil discourse in modern society. We live in a world where people think they must act contentiously or stay silent on the issues that matter most. However, if there was ever a time to have important discussions, now is that time.
1.There's a third course of action that is often overlooked. It's entirely possible to disagree with someone without becoming disagreeable. Unfortunately, we're really bad at doing just that. You don't have to act like a jerk to get your point across, but you do have to think about these considerations. Everyone is entitled to an informed opinion
2.Many of us espouse the misguided notion that, if given the same facts, all people come to the same conclusions. That's both naive and reductive. Humans come from varying backgrounds, and we all have our own personality traits that shade our view of the world. We can learn the same information and still come to wildly different conclusions from our friends and neighbors.
3.Outside of moral absolutes, the truth is a relative thing. If we want people to acquiesce to our way of thinking, we need to stop acting like those who disagree with us are under-educated or misinformed. Don't assume someone is ignorant of the issues simply because they don't see things your way. It's impossible to act civil and condescending at the same time. Only informed opinions count
4.Before you share your view on the world, ensure you're offering an informed opinion. One of the most powerful things you can learn is how much you do not know. No matter how brilliant we think we are, each of us has blind spots and gaps in our information. Before you assert your views, check that you are speaking within your area of study.
5.If you want others to take you seriously, you have to take yourself seriously first. It makes little sense to debate politics on social media if you haven't watched the news in six months. Likewise, you can't tell someone how to parent their child unless you are co-parenting right along with them. Understand the limitations of your viewpoint and your points of bias. Spouting off about something you don't understand is how arguments start. Focus on facts, not character
6.The second you attack someone's character, you have lost the argument. If you can't stay on point with facts and personal experiences, it's time to stay silent. It's never OK to disparage someone's good name, no matter how much you differ in your opinions. Tact is not dead, and you don't want to kill it. Besides, you can't convince someone to adopt your stance if they hate your guts. It just doesn't work that way.
7.Rise above personal attacks in public discourse, even online. It's tempting to say something negative about someone you can't see, but it's still not OK. Remember this important rule: never say something online that you wouldn't say face to face. Character assassination through social media is just as harmful as bullying in person. Agree to disagree
8.The heart of public discourse is understanding, not winning. People are too diverse to ever agree completely on important issues, and even if they could, that would make a very boring world. Know when to step away and leave the conversation. If you push past the point of polite disagreement, you'll only make enemies, and enemies never agree, no matter how valid the arguments.
9.Don't avoid people who challenge your beliefs, either. Some of the best relationships are with people who help us grow. Disagreement is not a good enough reason to blacklist someone from your life. If you can't act like adults and stay civil in your interactions, maybe it's time to look at your maturity level.
10.Real adults know how to disagree with grace. You can stand up for yourself and your morals without sinking into arguing and name calling. Let's bring the civility back into the public sphere. There are too many important issues to waste our time squabbling with each other. We need informed, intelligent adults to lead us into the future.
1.There's a third course of action that is often overlooked. It's entirely possible to disagree with someone without becoming disagreeable. Unfortunately, we're really bad at doing just that. You don't have to act like a jerk to get your point across, but you do have to think about these considerations. Everyone is entitled to an informed opinion
2.Many of us espouse the misguided notion that, if given the same facts, all people come to the same conclusions. That's both naive and reductive. Humans come from varying backgrounds, and we all have our own personality traits that shade our view of the world. We can learn the same information and still come to wildly different conclusions from our friends and neighbors.
3.Outside of moral absolutes, the truth is a relative thing. If we want people to acquiesce to our way of thinking, we need to stop acting like those who disagree with us are under-educated or misinformed. Don't assume someone is ignorant of the issues simply because they don't see things your way. It's impossible to act civil and condescending at the same time. Only informed opinions count
4.Before you share your view on the world, ensure you're offering an informed opinion. One of the most powerful things you can learn is how much you do not know. No matter how brilliant we think we are, each of us has blind spots and gaps in our information. Before you assert your views, check that you are speaking within your area of study.
5.If you want others to take you seriously, you have to take yourself seriously first. It makes little sense to debate politics on social media if you haven't watched the news in six months. Likewise, you can't tell someone how to parent their child unless you are co-parenting right along with them. Understand the limitations of your viewpoint and your points of bias. Spouting off about something you don't understand is how arguments start. Focus on facts, not character
6.The second you attack someone's character, you have lost the argument. If you can't stay on point with facts and personal experiences, it's time to stay silent. It's never OK to disparage someone's good name, no matter how much you differ in your opinions. Tact is not dead, and you don't want to kill it. Besides, you can't convince someone to adopt your stance if they hate your guts. It just doesn't work that way.
7.Rise above personal attacks in public discourse, even online. It's tempting to say something negative about someone you can't see, but it's still not OK. Remember this important rule: never say something online that you wouldn't say face to face. Character assassination through social media is just as harmful as bullying in person. Agree to disagree
8.The heart of public discourse is understanding, not winning. People are too diverse to ever agree completely on important issues, and even if they could, that would make a very boring world. Know when to step away and leave the conversation. If you push past the point of polite disagreement, you'll only make enemies, and enemies never agree, no matter how valid the arguments.
9.Don't avoid people who challenge your beliefs, either. Some of the best relationships are with people who help us grow. Disagreement is not a good enough reason to blacklist someone from your life. If you can't act like adults and stay civil in your interactions, maybe it's time to look at your maturity level.
10.Real adults know how to disagree with grace. You can stand up for yourself and your morals without sinking into arguing and name calling. Let's bring the civility back into the public sphere. There are too many important issues to waste our time squabbling with each other. We need informed, intelligent adults to lead us into the future.
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